Did you know that 60% of all married couples will experience infidelity at one time or another and out of town affairs are a large part of that statistic and growing rapidly. So why do spouses cheat out of town anyways? There are several obvious reasons for this. Here are some of them just to name a few.
* A Strong Fear of Getting Caught
* Exciting Part of Leading a Double Life
* The Need for an Emotional & Physical Connection
* The Privacy it ensures
So what are your options? Well you really only have 2 options: RECONCILIATION or DIVORCE? That is a choice that you must make, but personally I feel that if you have something worth fighting for…than you should fight. You should not erase all the good memories, time together, and/or children together because of a few poor choices made from your spouse. We are all human and humans make mistakes…even big ones!
But the hard question you must ask yourself is “will my life be better or worse without my spouse?” Only you can answer that. What is your heart telling you? Either way it is recommended for individual and joint therapy to truly deal with the pain of such traumatic events. Do not under estimate the long-term effects of going through the process of your spouse having out of town affairs. It is going to be a process for the both of you. Try to be patient through this hard time. Do whatever it takes to get healthy and happy. I know that sounds very difficult to do because of the pain you are feeling inside right now, but you must find a way. It might even get worse before it gets better, but I am here to tell you that…it will get better! I wish you the best in this very painful period of your life.